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When you tell someone not to do something, will they listen; or will they be more motivated than ever to do it? Science would say that the latter is more likely, because people like to be in control of their own lives.
The behavior is purely psychological and is known as reactance, which is a type of mechanism where our brain wants to ensure that we're free to do whatever it is that we want to do with our own lives.
Humans are also notoriously curious creature, so when you label something as the Forbidden Fruit and then say you can’t have it, you make them want it, even if they didn’t want to begin with.
The brain automatically challenges you to challenge that title with words like “you won’t believe” or you don’t know,” which makes you want to see more and do even more, just to prove that title wrong.
In addition to genetics, there are a lot of factors that can contribute to your impulse to do things you’re told not to do.
However, the psychology and physiology often play a major role in why we don’t have to worry about restraint and intimidation.
Don't jump red signal, don't drink and drive or any other don't etc..the restraining words are not working because people don't want to be controlled by others.
Consequently the road accident deaths are increasing day by day. People know the right things but they don't implement those principles in their daily life. Self control improvement is the need of the hour.
And hence - 6 Wise Monkey of Mother India Care are pomoting self-controlled centered empowerment to rewrite destiny with conscious shift and by feeding right information and input to mind. |